A special series on finding a bae, we hear from our resident dating Muslimah on the sorts of guys she comes across.  Overly Honest Osman, Computer said no Cassim, Fibbing Faz, Disappearing Dawood and Not Looking for Marriage Nasir. Last time we heard about Toxic Tahir this week we hear from our resident dating Muslimah about Hardly there Hatim.

Dear Hardly there Hatim,

I know I felt you there, the sensation of a whole human being in my life was not made up, you know that sensation? We spoke about our hobbies, our shared interests, and ambitions. We vibed, fully!

I kind of feel like I was talking to a ghost, was any of it real? I could’ve sworn there were voice notes to prove it, but your WhatsApp pic has no image. Did I construct this relationship out of thin air? I know we had met once, and spoken countless times on the phone, but when life gets a little difficult, *tumbleweed.*

You seem to pop up weeks later unannounced, to haunt me…you’re an actual ghoul. Disappear with your chest, and don’t contact me anymore.

From a Muslimah doing Ruqiyah